Memorial Day Open Thread
Welcome to your Memorial Day Open Thread. Hope that you all have been contributing to Delaware’s economy by going to the beach with your family or getting your friends together to help you build an outdoor kitchen to your house.
This interesting bit of new history has been discussed in several places this week:
According to Yale history professor David Blight, African Americans in Charleston, S.C., launched the first Memorial Day celebration in 1865, three years before the commander-in-chief of the Grand Army of the Republic called on Union veterans’ organizations to decorate the graves of dead soldiers.[…]
Following the Confederate surrender, which ended the Civil War, blacks went to the place where hundreds of prisoners had been buried, many in mass graves. “Blacks, many of them recently freed slaves, buried the soldiers properly. They put up a fence around the area and painted it. More than 260 were buried there. We don’t know the names. We don’t know the race,” Blight told BlackAmericaWeb.com.
Last year, President Obama rejected the calls for him to stop the tradition of sending a wreath to the Confederate Memorial at Arlington, but started a new one (I hope) of sending a wreath to the monument that honors the service of African-American soldiers during the Civil War. I’m hoping that tradition is maintained this year. But both President and Mrs. Obama will be attending the ceremonies at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier today; this memorial is also the site of an official observance of a national moment of silence at 2:55 this afternoon.
And while we rightfully remember and honor the service and sacrifices of those who worked to defend this country, it is also a good time to ask when we can bestow the honor of ending asking for these sacrifices from American men and women:
This Memorial Day, I ask you all to take a moment to read the news and to imagine those who have been asked to say goodbye to their loved ones. If you feel the same as I do, that the casualties and sorrow of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan have caused enough loss to our young people and their families, then consider asking your representatives in Congress, “Why?” Ask them when we, as a nation filled with veterans, can finally live a life that is truly peaceful, without war, and without so many soldiers dying in far reaches of the world.
May God bless all that have dedicated their lives for the protection of this nation, both in times of war and peace.
I hope everyone takes a moment today to recognize of pay tribute to the men and women of the military who gave their lives in defense of our country.
Eddie grew up Newark before his family relocated to SC
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Last year, on Memorial Day weekend, my wife and I went to four services over two days, and this year we didn’t go to one. I’ve been wrestling with some guilt about that fact.
The events last year were all very moving, and we both treasure the memories from those two days. I even had the honor of giving a speech at Greenwood VFW Hall.
But this year, I haven’t gone to anything.
Does that mean that I was just pretending last year, posturing to get votes?
First of all, as a veteran myself, I figure I’ve earned the right to celebrate this holiday however I want.
But still those questions linger.
If I were to ask some of those fallen veterans, how they would like to be honored, I think many would answer the same way my father in law answered.
My father in law is a combat veteran from Vietnam and a recipient of The Purple Heart.
He told me that the parades and the ceremonies are important, but for him, he would rather I spend the day being a good father, have a cookout on the deck and kick back with a cold one or two.
In addition to spending time with my family, we’re about to head over to Rehoboth Beach. We’ll eat some fries and go to Funland.
To spend a day enjoying that which others died to preserve is to pay those men and women a compliment. They died so that we could do those things.
As our weekend winds down, the Westhoffs are honored and humbled at this gift.
I hope everyone had a great weekend.
–Jim
Oh yeah, hello from Italy. Relaxing today. We went to see Pompeii and Mt. Vesuvius yesterday. It was amazing. Tomorrow we head for Rome.