It’s Generational.

Filed in National by on November 14, 2011

Thomas Day, a 31 year old Iraq War veteran wrote a guest column yesterday in the Washington Post’s On Faith section. Mr. Day is also a Penn State graduate, a Catholic, an acquaintance of the monster Jerry Sandusky and a product of the now notorious Second Mile foundation. The point of his column to express what I think is a common theme running my and Mr. Day’s generation, and also the youth movement that has been behind both the election of Barack Obama in 2008 and also the Occupy Movement this year:

[I] have fully lost faith in the leadership of my parents’ generation. […]

I was one of the lucky ones. My experience with Second Mile was a good one. I should feel fortunate, blessed even, that I was never harmed. Yet instead this week has left me deeply shaken, wondering what will come of the foundation, the university, and the community that made me into a man.

One thing I know for certain: A leader must emerge from Happy Valley to tie our community together again, and it won’t come from our parents’ generation.

They have failed us, over and over and over again. […] They have had their time to lead. Time’s up. I’m tired of waiting for them to live up to obligations.

Think of the world our parents’ generation inherited. They inherited a country of boundless economic prosperity and the highest admiration overseas, produced by the hands of their mothers and fathers. They were safe. For most, they were endowed opportunities to succeed, to prosper, and build on their parents’ work.

For those of us in our 20s and early 30s, this is not the world we are inheriting.

We looked to Washington to lead us after September 11th. I remember telling my college roommates, in a spate of emotion, that I was thinking of enlisting in the military in the days after the attacks. I expected legions of us — at the orders of our leader — to do the same. But nobody asked us. Instead we were told to go shopping. […]

We looked for leadership from our churches, and were told to fight not poverty or injustice, but gay marriage. In the Catholic Church, we were told to blame the media, not the abusive priests, not the bishops, not the Vatican, for making us feel that our church has failed us in its sex abuse scandal and cover-up.

Our parents’ generation has balked at the tough decisions required to preserve our country’s sacred entitlements, leaving us to clean up the mess. They let the infrastructure built with their fathers’ hands crumble like a stale cookie. […]
Now we are asking for jobs and are being told we aren’t good enough, to the tune of 3.3 million unemployed workers between the ages of 25 and 34.

Perhaps the most vivid illustration this week of our leaderless culture came with the riots in State College that followed Paterno’s dismissal. The display resembled Lord of the Flies. Without revered figures from the older generation to lead them, thousands of students at one of the country’s best state universities acted like children home alone.

Generational definitions are hard to come by and subject to much debate. But generally, you have the Greatest Generation, those born in the 1910’s and 1920’s, who fought World War II. The Baby Boomer Generation are the children of the Greatest Generation, and were born in the late 40’s and 50’s, that much is certain. Where the debate comes in concerns the parameters of what constitutes the next two generations after the Baby Boomers. There is Generation X (those born in the mid 60’s and 70’s) and Generation Y (those born in the 80’s and early 90’s). Mr. Day speaks of the generation that is in their 20’s and 30’s today, which would cover both GenX and GenY.

Regardless, it is the collective XY generations are who are in conflict with the Baby Boomers. Fittingly, President Obama is really not encamped in either generation. He is really not a Baby Boomer, obviously, having been born in 1961, although some generational timelines have the Baby Boom generation lasting until 1964. But Bill and Hillary and George W. are Baby Boomers. Barack is not. Barack is also not really a GenX-er, having been born too early. No, he is a child of the Silent Generation, those who were born between the Greatest Generation and the Baby Boomers. But I am really digressing.

What we are experiencing right now is a generational battle. The younger generations have lost all faith in their elders, and are fighting back.

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  1. V says:

    THIS. EXACTLY THIS. I read this today and couldn’t agree more. Being a Gen Y or “millennial” I am really effing tired of hearing how spoiled and entitled I am. How i got achievement awards for nothing in elementary school and it ruined me for life. You know, between my full time job and night school.

    Also, if it looks to you that i’m not doing work? maybe it’s because i do it different than you? maybe you don’t see me filing because i’ve actually converted our whole system to paperless electronic filing and i’m doing it on my computer? Maybe i’m listening to headphones because it helps me drone out you talking to my co-worker about Dancing with the Stars.

    Honest my parents generation did nothing but make money for themselves at the expense of others, and now on the cusp of losing their grip on power are cashing in as much as they can before we take over.

  2. Weave says:

    I’ll answer a blanket generalization with another one. Young people need to vote. Oh sure, they all turned out to vote for Obama, but two years later nothing exciting was at the polls so they stayed home and Republicans took over the House and if not for gaffes like O’Donnell, they would have taken the Senate too.

    Old people vote. Politicians pander to that group. If young people want to change things up, start by getting out there in 2012 and vote — in the primaries and in the general. Otherwise …. elections have consequences, quit yer whining.

  3. Yes, young people need to vote. What’s happening now is going to effect them most of all. The reason politicians pander to older voters is because they reliably turn out to vote. Why do you think they all promise people over 55 their Medicare and Social Security will be fine?

    If OWS and other young people want to change the country’s direction, they not only need to vote, they need to run people for office. Why did the Tea Party gain such power in the GOP? It’s because they took down politicians and made them scared not to answer to them.

  4. V says:

    1. It’s easier for older retirees to vote because they’re home all day with their own transport and no young children to corral. On a regular Tuesday with my schedule I would have about a 1 hour window to vote, thankfully there are never lines at my polling place. That’s different if you live in Ohio. Also states are making it harder for college kids to vote with various voter restriction laws. It’s not like we’re all home watching soaps.

    2. I always vote, and I work hard to make sure everyone I know does too. So I get to whine all I want.

  5. Frank says:

    This really sounds like “Never trust anybody over 30.”

    As a baby boomer, I resent the generational stereotyping.

    Shame on you.

  6. V says:

    The majority of generational stories seems to center on how awful and lazy my generation is. So shame on you.

    I respect my parents, and their friends, and my co-workers in the older generation. But it seems pretty obvious that the leadership of the boomer generation/Gen X (I think the author’s definiation blends the two a little more than DD has) has failed on pretty much every level since the Regan administration.

    We are not inheriting a world better than the one given to our parents.

  7. V says:

    also “Never trust anybody under 30” sort of sounds like the flip of “oh don’t listen to her, she’s young, she doesn’t know any better yet” doesn’t it?

    I’m serious. My generation is fucked. and it pisses me off.