Song of the Day 10/27: The Jackson 5, “I Want You Back”

Filed in Arts and Entertainment by on October 27, 2023

So I was at a wedding a couple of weekends ago and – old fogey alert! – when the music started it was like a rave had broken out. The DJ segued one record into another ad infinitum, all with the same monotonous robo-beat while the bridal party – were nine bridesmaids really necessary? – bounced up and down, not exactly with each other. He never took a break, either, and as the second hour elapsed the father of the bride said, “I wish they’d play just one Motown song we could dance to!” That started a spirited discussion at the old fogey table: Which one?

If you could coax the DJ into playing just one Motown song so the Boomers could dance, which one would it be? “September,” someone suggested, but while it’s a fine dance number, Earth, Wind & Fire didn’t record for Motown. “Heat Wave” was invoked, but it seemed wrong for an October occasion. Trying to think of something so infectious it would make people dance, I proposed “I Want You Back.”

My nominee was rejected by the table because the song’s premise – the singer is wooing a girl he once rejected – was inappropriate for a wedding. My response: Harumph! You want something you can dance to? Just look at the video! All five Jacksons are dancing! And though only a few of us at the wedding were old old enough to experience it, this was the song that set off Jacksonmania back in 1969, the first of a string of four No. 1 hits.

The table discussion petered out under the DJ’s onslaught, but I’m open to suggestions: If you could pick just one Motown song for such an occasion, which one would it be?

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  1. puck says:

    Not Motown, but one of my favorite photos of my late father is from my own wedding. He was in a line of bridesmaids doing the Electric Slide, and the bridesmaids were all leaning one way, while my father was leaning the other way.

  2. ‘Do You Love Me’- Contours

    ‘Mickey’s Monkey’-Miracles

    ‘Ain’t Too Proud To Beg-Temptations’

    for starters

    • Alby says:

      Good ones, especially “Mickey’s Monkey,” though I fear it would be too obscure for most modern DJs. It gets bonus points for being named for a dance (yes, kids, people used to do a dance called the Monkey).

      My out-of-left-field selection: The Four Tops, “Bernadette.”

  3. This one by the 4 Tops should pack the dance floor. I wish it went on for at least twice as long:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFrTXGEmU2Q

    BTW, Al: This was the flip side of ‘Bernadette’.