Airing my dirty laundry again

It REALLY never ends…

To set the stage, daughter #2, despite my best efforts to screw her up is beyond brilliant. She is a straight A student that most likely will be able to get into any college in the country assuming I can pay for it and don’t screw her up over the next 18 months. I will be allowing her to miss some school time in April b/c my sister will need a little assistance on a trip to Florida with her children. It will allow her some adult time with her husband. It is a week I have my daughter, but I didn’t get a chance to ask the Ex-Viti if it was ok. I figured it would be, but my father acted faster than normal for him so I had to beg for a little forgiveness with the Ex-viti

AAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNDDDDDDDD ACTION!!!!

 

Devil Woman,

#2 will be going with my dad and sister to Florida from 3/28 till 4/4, which is a week she is with me. I apologize for not asking you in advance if this was ok. I meant to, but my Dad actually booked the tickets before I really thought he was going too.

She is flying Southwest with her Aunt and Uncle to and from. The information on her trip is attached below and the flight information is coming next.

Donviti,
I would like to clarify arrangements for Christmas week. Please let me know what time I can get them on Xmas Eve since this is their year to sleep at my house, as well as what hours you’ll be taking them from & til on Xmas day.

Also, Live-in-boyfriend & I will be going away from 1/1-1/4.

Since we are leaving very early the morning of 1/1, I would like to drop the girls off a couple days early on Wednesday, 12/31. I’ll have them to your house around 6 or so.

(FYI-Since the previous email was clearly scribed by Mrs. Hotviti, I’d respectfully request that we concede that point going forward. As long as we can remain civil, there’s no need for either one of you to have to pretend to be the other. Thanks.)

Siser-of-Death,

First point of order, you didn’t ask if we were doing anything on New Year’s. We have plans already. So I will have to get back to you on what we can do.

So, in an attempt to ask for a favor of Mrs. Hotviti and me, you attempt to be smarmy and cute at the same time by implying that Mrs. Hotviti wrote the email like you have it all figured it out. Well, you are wrong. I wrote it and I swear on my sons life, not that I should have to of course. I genuinely was apologetic because I didn’t confer with you on something as important as our daughter going away on a plane for a week without either of us. I should have asked you if it was ok since she would be also missing school. I didn’t, I apologized.

Now in your infinite wisdom you have asked for a favor and couldn’t resist to get a shot in. Well done. I attempted to open the lines of communication while one of our daughters is in therapy because we, YOU AND I can’t get along and trash each other with the girls around especially daughter #1.

You really are a piece of work.

Donviti

For the record, I do not “trash you” in front of the girls. There’s no need to. Your actions speak for themselves.

And quite frankly, I gave up hope long ago that you & I would ever be capable of achieving healthy lines of communication. As long as you continue to harbor so much anger and hatred, nothing positive will ever be accomplished. It took me many, many years to make peace with that realization.

I apologize for not “asking” about the New Years trip. The one thing we have managed to be successful with is managing schedules, and it’s not like the girls are still young enough to be in need of a sitter. If you need me to ask my parents for help, let me know.

And please let me know the holiday schedule as well. Thanks.

Not with an attitude like that.  Someone has to conceed at some point.  I would have thought me apologizing for not communicating something to you would have been a start.  Silly me.  Carry on that torch of hate she-devil.  Let’s see if we can get #3 to follow in #1’s footsteps.  9 years we have been divorced and look at us.  Pathetic.