It’s been a while…Airing my Dirty Laundry

Thinking about getting married?  About having kids with the woman of your dreams?  Make sure it is the right woman is all I can say.  If you are new to this special segment all I can tell you stuff like this has been happening between me and my ex since 1999.   Yes, I OPENLY admit that part of it is my fault too.   

Feel free to indulge yourself into everything that is donviti.  The Mrs. Hotviti once again steps in and if you pay attention you just might learn something about the wife and I too…

From: Satan’s Daughter
Sent: Thursday, April 03, 2008 10:37 AM
To: Donviti X
Subject: Girls

Several things:First, #3 has called me several times this week asking permission to go to this semi-formal dance at Cab tomorrow night.  I am still on the fence, and was wondering how her week has been.I received a message on my home phone last night from the President of Conrad’s PTO about a meeting next Wednesday night, the 9^th, with the Red Clay Superintendant regarding “the future of Conrad”.  I’d love to go, but have school on Wed nights.  I wasn’t sure if this was something you might be able to attend.  I believe it’s at 6:30, but I’d call school to confirm.I am taking Daughter #2 to a meeting Monday night regarding Christiana Hospital’s summer Volunteer Program.  It’s from 5-6 in Wilmington.  Daughter#3 has her med evaluation appt that night @ 5:30.  Is it possible for her to go to your house after school, you to take her to her appt, then I’ll pick her up right after Daughter #2 & I are done?Finally, what have we decided about Daughter #1’s party? Best Regards,Satan’s Daughter 

From: Donviti
Sent: Thursday, April 03, 2008 12:07 PM
To: Satan’s Daughter

CC: Mrs. Hotiviti
Subject: RE: Girls 

#3 = No.  Her grades haven’t changed, why should she be rewarded for doing nothing. 

Wednesday, I’ll plan on going. 

Regarding Daughter #2 and Daughter #1.  Why am I just now finding out about this?   Yet again you are informing me of something you have planned and not told me about until after the fact and a few days before hand.   

Why can’t your boyfriend take Daughter #2 to the Volunteer thing?  What does Daughter #2’s volunteer thing entail?  When it is from?  When were you going to tell me about it?  Where in Wilmington?  I would rather be left with getting Daughter #2 to and from the Volunteer thing.

You need to take Daughter #1 to the Med Appt.  We said she needed meds 2 years ago. Now, you have finally agreed after a year and a half of putting it off, you carry the ball over the goal line.  Mrs. Hotviti and I already tried to take care of it once, went to the appointment, got the paperwork and you balked and didn’t want Daughter #1 to be on Meds.  Sorry.  This one is all yours.

I have decided on Daughter #1’s birthday and I will do my own party with my family.  The fact that this crap still happens is beyond me.  You don’t get it.  You didn’t communicate anything to me about the Dairy Palace either. 

Please let me know about Daughter #2’s thing. From: Satan’s DaughterHi, Mrs. Hotviti.  We’re going to go ahead back to square one since your husband is clearly having an off day.  Please let him know I will be contacting his NEW employer if this unstable behavior ensues once again.In regard to the previous e-mail, my only response is that I will be rescheduling daughter #3 med check since neither of you can take her.  Nothing else justifies a response.You may want to sign your child up for counseling now.

 

From: Mrs. Hotviti
Sent: Thursday, April 03, 2008 12:47 PM
To: , Satan’s Daughter.
Subject: RE: GirlsSatan’s Daughter,I’m confused. Donviti expresses his frustration about not knowing information about Daughter #2 and Daughter #1 and tries to problem solve w/ you on ways to get Daughter #2 to her meeting and Daughter #1 to her medication evaluation.  And you respond by threatening him, calling him names, and then speak of my unborn child.  Who’s crossing the line?  So, please do not email him any longer and just email me. You and Donviti worked so well together when it came to working out a plan for #3.  It’s really helped b/c she’s really motivated to bring up her grades. She knows that the two of you are working together and are serious about sticking to your plan until her grades improve.  Let’s keep it up w/ us working together.  It really does work!!  We just ask that please when you have an idea for the girls or want to sign up the girls for something just let us know when you are finding out about stuff, so that way we can be involved in the process too.  It would really be helpful, and I know cut down on the frustration and resentment from both you and Donviti.

Also, I spoke w/ the dentist office Monday to clarify if their appt was suppose to be this past Tuesday or next Tuesday.  They said it was scheduled for next Tuesday (sorry about the late notice we were under the assumption it was this past Tuesday).  I don’t think Donviti passed along the information that they need a copy of your insurance card since they will now be billing through your insurance.  They asked if you could copy it and bring it in.  I hope it won’t be too much trouble.  I’m not sure how your insurance pays for dental coverage but our old insurance used to send us the check and then we forwarded the money to the dentist.  Could you ask the front desk how that will work with your insurance and then let us know.

Thank you.

Mrs. Hotviti

  

Satan’s Daughter L.” wrote:

Mrs. Hotviti~~you are not confused.  You are merely trying to make whatever feeble attempt you can to justify your husband’s off-the-wall behavior.  Period.  Trying to characterize his erratic behavior as trying to “problem solve”???  Please don’t go down this path with me again.  I beg you.  You forget that I graduated from Donviti Academy.

The bottom line is that he has once again proven he is not capable of fundamental communication skills.  It’s a clear cycle to even the casual observer & I can’t believe you wouldn’t be interested in helping him as opposed to enabling him.  I will only communicate with you if stop trying to explain his lunacy to me. 

 

Save your cheerleading, save your thoughtful analysis.  The facts are all I need.  I will have my insurance card with me at their appointment as I always do.  I don’t believe there is anything else for us to discuss.

 

Satan’s Daughter,

 

That’s fine that only we are communicating, but as I’ve said to you in the past keep your disrespectful name calling comments to yourself about me, Donviti and now my unborn child, AND I again ask that you give us more infomration than what you have been presently. 

 

For example, can you please tell me more about the volunteer program that you have signed Daughter #2 up for.  Starting with when and where the meeting is on Monday.  What her program will entail this summer.  We will be very limited in being able to get her to events during the week, so if we know WELL in advance we will do our best to get her places.

 

Also, what places have you gotten applications for Daughter #1 for a job, and does she have any interviews lined up.  We are limited in the times that we can take her to work so it is important that we are in on the this process with her coordinating a schedule that works for ALL of us. thank you

Mrs. Hotviti